Farlina probably died between 1900, when she was listed in the census, and 1904, when Jack remarried to Effie Traylor. But it is possible that they were instead divorced.

Rowan County marriage book 1, p. 19, records bond issued 25 Nov 1882 for the marriage of Jas A. Ferrand and Farline Grigry, surety by P. G. Day. The marriage is also listed in Register Book A, p. 3, as James A. Ferrand and Farline Gregory, having taken place on 30 Nov 1882, at the bride’s residence by D. K. Jones, witnesses Alfred Sparks & his wife.

(Their daughter Nancy’s death certificate gives her mother’s maiden name as Ferlina Stamper, proving that this is Frank Gregory’s widow instead of Gregory being her maiden name. I had already figured that was a near certainty even before finding the death certificate, since the only Farlina Gregory listed in the 1880 census of Rowan, Morgan or Elliott counties was the wife of Frank Gregory, and they were only five households away from family of James’ parents, William Ferrand and Lucinda Jones.)

Farlina and James were first cousins, since their mothers were sisters.